Stop Chasing the Market & Focus on What You Can Actually Control

Peter Pabich |

Every time the market drops, the headlines get louder, your phone buzzes and someone at work mentions they moved everything to cash. Even if you know better, it's hard not to feel the pull to do something - because doing nothing in a moment like that takes a lot of discipline. 

But, time and again, our experience has proven that the individuals and families who build lasting wealth aren't the ones who spend their time chasing the market. Instead, they're the ones who learned to focus their energy on the things they could actually control - their tax strategy, how their assets were structured, and how they made decisions when the pressure was on. Those are the real levers for growing your wealth and the good news is that they're available to you, too.

Let’s take a look at each of these key levers and why they matter more than you may realize:

1. Tax Planning

Most people think of tax planning as something that happens in April. In reality, the decisions that have the most impact happen throughout the year and require your investment strategy, your tax picture, and your estate plan to actually be talking to each other. When those pieces are siloed across people who have never had a conversation, you end up paying more than you need to, year after year, without ever knowing it.

Think about your asset location - which of your investments live in which type of accounts. Holding the wrong assets in a taxable account versus a tax-deferred or tax-free account can quietly cost you tens of thousands of dollars over a decade, not because of bad investment choices but because of where those investments were held. Add in strategic tax-loss harvesting throughout the year, thoughtful timing of income recognition for business owners, and coordination around required minimum distributions - and you start to see how much runway there is between what most people pay in taxes and what they actually need to.

Example: Two families invest the same amount, in the same funds, over 20 years. One works with an advisor who coordinates their tax approach across every account. The other doesn't. The difference in what each family actually keeps (not earns, but keeps) can be significant. Not because of market performance, but because of tax planning.

While we’re on the topic, one practical date worth flagging right now is that Q2 2026 estimated tax payments are due June 16th. If you're self-employed, have meaningful investment income, or receive income that isn't automatically withheld, that's a deadline worth putting on the calendar today.

And, families will soon be able to open tax-advantaged investment accounts for children under 18 by filing Form 4547 (anticipated July 2026). These dates are worth having on your radar, particularly if you have children or grandchildren you'd like to start building something for.

2. Asset Protection

If you own a home, run a business, have money saved in investment accounts, or have simply spent years working toward something, you already have assets worth protecting. The question isn't whether asset protection applies to you. It's whether the way your wealth is currently held actually reflects that.

The titling of your assets, the entities through which you hold business interests or real estate, and the legal structures surrounding your estate all affect your exposure in ways that most people never think about until something goes wrong - at which point the options narrow considerably. Let’s look at an example:

Example: A couple in their late 40s has a healthy investment portfolio, a home with significant equity, and one spouse who runs a small business on the side. Nothing flashy - just two decades of disciplined saving. Because everything is held in their personal names, a slip-and-fall lawsuit on their rental property, a dispute with a business vendor, or even a serious car accident could expose assets they never thought were at risk. The fix isn't complicated or expensive, but it’s a conversation they haven’t had yet - which leaves them exposed.

A useful question to sit with is “Does the way your wealth is held today actually reflect your life as it is now - not when you first set things up, but right now, today?” If you can’t say “yes” with complete confidence, it’s worth reviewing with your advisor.

3. Estate and Gifting Strategy

When most people think about estate planning, they think about having a will. And yes, a current, well-drafted will is the foundation. But the more important question is whether your overall estate plan is actually doing what you think it is and whether you're using the tools available to you while you're alive, not just leaving everything to be sorted out after the fact.

The federal estate tax exemption is now $15 million per individual / $30 million for married couples under current law, with inflation indexing going forward. That gives many families meaningful room to be deliberate about how wealth eventually transfers - but "having room" and "having a plan" are two different things. Structures like irrevocable trusts, family gifting programs, and strategic use of the annual gift exclusion can move wealth to the next generation efficiently and, for many families, in ways that feel far more intentional than simply leaving it all in a will.

Example 1: A grandmother wants to help her three grandchildren with college. Each year, she writes checks from her personal account. Meanwhile, she could be contributing to 529 accounts - which grow tax-free, can be superfunded up to five years of gifts at once, and quietly reduce her taxable estate at the same time. In 2026, she can give up to $19,000 per person, or $38,000 as a couple, without any gift tax implications. She's being generous either way. But one approach does significantly more work with the same dollars. The intention was always there. The structure just needed to catch up to it.

Example 2: A man spends 35 years building a manufacturing business. When he finally decides to sell in his late 60s, the proceeds push his estate well above what he'd planned for. Had he started transferring ownership interests to his children gradually over the previous decade - when the business was valued lower and the gifting rules gave him room to move - he could have passed a significant portion of that value without the tax hit he's now facing. The business was always going to be his legacy. The timing just didn't get the same attention as the operations.

Estate planning done well isn't a document you sign and forget. It's a living part of your financial picture that should be revisited when your life changes - and proactively, not just reactively.

4. Spending and Cash Flow Clarity

This one tends to surprise people, because it sounds too simple to matter for high-net-worth individuals and families. But, in our experience, unclear cash flow is a common reason high-earning families find themselves wondering why their net worth isn't growing the way they'd expect and it has nothing to do with their investments or the market.

The thing is, it's not usually a single big financial decision that creates the problem. It's a slow, quiet accumulation of lifestyle expenses over years - a second home, school tuition, more frequent travel, cars on shorter replacement cycles, memberships, renovation projects - none of which were considerable in isolation, but which together have absorbed most of what looked like healthy savings. The issue isn't spending - it's spending without full visibility into the picture.

Example 1: A couple in their mid-50s is earning well, saving consistently, and genuinely confused about why their net worth isn't tracking faster. When they sit down with their advisor and actually map their cash flow in one place, the answer becomes clear - lifestyle creep over the past decade has quietly absorbed most of what they thought they were getting ahead on. Nothing was a mistake. Nothing was reckless. But nobody had ever laid it all out together. Once they did, they were able to make conscious choices about what mattered most and redirect accordingly. Within two years, the trajectory looked completely different.

Example 2: A couple in their early 30s with two kids under five are both earning good salaries and doing everything they're supposed to - contributing to their 401(k)s, paying down the mortgage, keeping the credit cards clear. But at the end of every month, there's almost nothing left over, and they can't quite explain why. When they sit down and actually map it out, the picture comes into focus: daycare for two kids, a mortgage on a home they bought at the top of the market, two car payments, a home renovation they put on a HELOC, and a dozen small subscriptions and memberships that individually feel negligible but collectively add up to several hundred dollars a month. Nothing on the list is outrageous. But the list had never been looked at as a whole. Once it was, they found room they didn't know they had - and started directing it toward goals that actually mattered to them.

Having a clear, honest picture of what's coming in and going out isn't about restriction. It's about making sure your spending is actually aligned with the life you want - and that you're not finding out after the fact that it wasn't.

What You Can Control

Nobody knows exactly what the market will do next month - not us, not anyone on television, not any podcast host, not any social media influencer. What you can control is how your wealth gets taxed over time, how your assets are held and protected, how your estate is organized so that what you've built actually gets where you want it to go, and whether your decisions are grounded in a plan or driven by the moment. That's where we put our energy, and in our experience, it's where the most meaningful long-term results come from.

If any of this raises questions about your own situation - or if it's been a while since you've had a real, comprehensive look at the full picture - we'd love to have that conversation. Reach out to your Entrust Wealth Partners advisor, or call us at (860) 838-3730 to learn more and get started.